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(Not Married and No Wonder)

Sonnet 116


Let me not to the marriage of true minds

Admit impediments. Love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark

That looks on tempests and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle's compass come:

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved,

I never writ, nor no man ever loved.



William Shakespeare

(1564 - 1616)

Comments

(Anonymous)

Married

well, it will be 23 years for us in June. And yes, Shakespeare has it so right. And the reason why commitment is so hard, is because it faces us with our own mortality.

Re: Married

Shakespeare may have it aright, but you and I read different things into it.

(Anonymous)

Re: Married

well yeah, Shakespeare wasn't saying that, just that it lasts till the edge of doom. And that can be scary, looking at your lover and realizing that the only thing that's going to end it is doom. So some people run to get a new lover, because then doom seems further off....it makes no sense really, all just mental constructs

Re: Married


Maybe I'm a rare bird in my lack of fear of death. I guess I save my fear for stuff I can actually *do* something about. Not point in getting my knickers in a twist about stuff that I can't change.